2/13/26 How Did the Bridge Get There?

Dee and Ed have a cassita in their backyard. Dee says she cleans it periodically. She shows me the bridge that goes straight across behind the cassita (Parallel to it )and then toward the cassita on the sides. She doesn’t know how it got there.

I end up staying at the cassita. I take a shower and worry if the water will get hot enough. It does. It is a very nice place. I am happy.

I worked this dream with Denise and Peter last night (2/23/26). Here is what I wrote:

If this were my dream, I am staying in Dee and Ed’s little cassita. The cassita represents my inner self/ authentic self. Dee and Ed are very altruistic, always helping others. They are different in that Dee has very good social skills and Ed, not always, but he works on it. Do Dee and Ed represent represent my feminine and masculine energies? There is a bridge behind the cassita in the woods. The woods could represent my unconscious. A bridge connects two things. Maybe it is a beginning for Paul and I to bridge our relationship in this new chapter. I take a shower and this helps me relax.

Other ideas from Peter and Denise: The bridge in the dream wasn’t going over any obstacles like water, etc. , so, this could mean I do not have any obstacles to deal with either with my daughter and her family and/or with my inner world? The casita is clean and it has hot water for a shower. This has to do with a cleansing and the warmth of self healing. The bridge’s shape could have to do with connecting opposite sides of life.: my own inner life and my life that is changing with Paul having dementia.

2/11/26 I Get How Sensitive Kevin is

I am with Kevin and Kelsi in a pool. They have a blow up raft with them. Kevin is 7 or 8 years old and Kelsi is 4-5 years olf.

Then it is just Kevin and he is around 4-5 years old. He is upset about something. One thing he is upset about is his teddy bear getting dirty. The teddy bear is somewhat crude-hand knit. It is not as nice as the ones I have knit in waking life. Paul is off somewhere. He is going to take Kevin some place. I realize in the dream how sensitive Kevin is/was at that age. In waking life I always felt he was a sensitive person, but this was a more visceral feeling.

2/11/26 A Woman is Messing up Her Pre-Wedding Outfit

A woman is working at finding an outfit for her pre-wedding party. Non of the outfits she tries on look good. The last outfit is deep green. I like that one the most.

She is getting ready, putting on the deep green outfit. She then goes into the shower and gets it wet! I try to stop her. She has a hard time with picking out clothes. She doesn’t have much taste. I am am observer and then I become her.

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