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1. I am driving my car on Cottage Lane which is perpendicular to Shady Oak Road. I come to a stop at Shady Oak. I see Margi, Nancy and Joyce walking on Shady Oak Road. Nancy is in the middle of Margi and Joyce. They are supporting her, however, she is walking pretty good by herself. I am surprised. I thought Nancy was on death’s door. Nancy waves to me and I wave back. They then turn into the drive way with the three house; the one I grew up in is the farthest back. They go to the first house which is on the left. There is an elevator attached to the house on the right. They get in and go up to where Nancy is staying. I intend to visit, but the dream ends.

2. Last scene of longer dream….There is an old woman in her car which is in a parking garage. The car is not working, but she wants to leave. Somehow the car can slowly “roll”. Two young, male attendants are there. They allow the woman and her car to roll out of the parking garage.

Nancy died over night on Friday, July 28th. The first dream is a visitation dream. I feel honored to have Nancy show up and wave good bye. The second dream seems to be saying Nancy was ready to leave, her car/body was no longer working.

I am at a conference, maybe a dream conference. There are a lot of people there. We are in an auditorium. I am sitting in the back. Woody Haroldson is the MC. Now groups of people are sitting around tables. I help serve by putting something on each table (food/drink?). I am picking up some prejudice against me. I am native. When I come back to my table someone is telling a joke about sex.

The next scene/maybe dream, but it felt like they went together. Chris and I are writing these lists on scraps of paper. Chris is writing nice things about Gail and I am writing nice things about Jill. We are thinking about flying and then giving the lists to Jill and Gail. Dad is conferring with us. He says to not waste money flying. Chris will be seeing Gail soon in person and she can give her list to her then and I will be seeing Jill soon and can give my list to her then.

I see Nancy walking with Joyce and Margi. They are supporting her, but she is walking on her own. I am surprised. I thought she was on death’s door. I am driving up the hill on Cottage Lane Rd which is across the road from the driveway where I grew up. In the dream it is right across from it, but in waking life, it is a bit to the left. I wave and they wave back. They turn into the driveway which has three houses off of it. They go to the house on the left which is the first house. There is an elevator attached to the right side of the house. I see them get in and go up. They are going to where Nancy stays. I think I will follow them, but the dream ends.

(Another dream about Nancy?) Old Woman Slowly Rolling Out of a Parking Garage

I am just remembering the last scene: There is an old woman in a parking garage. She is in her car. The car is not really working, but she wants to leave. Somehow the car can slowly “roll”. There are two, young attendants there. They allow the woman and her car to roll out of the parking garage.

Daynotes:; Nancy died yesterday in her sleep at night on 7/29/23. I had not talked on the phone with her for a while. We kept missing each other a couple of weeks before. She battled cancer for 8 years. She was in hospice a good two months. It was difficult for her, however, she had many friends that came and visited.

I think the first dream is Nancy saying goodbye to me. The second dream represents Nancy leaving this world because her body is no longer working.